How Do You Know When You Are Being a “Total Girl?”

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Most of my posts come from personal inspiration and this weekend was overly abundant in one category.  All of my girlfriends had seemingly come down with a case of the “cray cray” – including myself! I can only hope that you are just like me and my friends, otherwise this post may not make sense; or there could be something wrong with you, in which case I may take comfort in that.  Nevertheless, there comes a time when girls find “that guy.”  The one that is Mr. Perfect for right now.  This weekend it seemed to happen for all of us – even those of us with boyfriends suffered from the worst disease of “Over-Analysis Syndrome” leading to plenty of ‘analyses’ about those ‘analyses’ over mimosas at Sunday Brunch. Common Gripes included: The Whine: “I just don’t get why he wouldn’t text me – I mean we had a really fun time!” The Regretter: “I just don’t know, I just don’t know, I don’t want to like him, I just don’t know.” The Lost Identity: “I can’t believe I texted him! What was I thinking! Ugh I’ve turned into that needy girl.  I’m a lawyer for Christ sake!” The Oh Sh*t: “Him! I went home with him? He … [Read more...]

Ask Him Out: A Lady’s Recap Of Growing Up And Moving Forward

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You know that scene in cheesy 80’s movies where the geeky girl is watching the football hunk come through a set of doors with what literally looks like the light of God behind him?  Well, that was me fast forward 10 years – with better skin, hair and hopefully a tad smarter after a college degree. I may not have been in the halls of high school but rather at the gym where the aforementioned 80’s hunk goes to maintain his youthful luster.  My reasons for my gym membership are several fold – maintaining somewhat of a physique when I have a sit-all-day desk job (caveat: which I love!) and somehow trying to return my body to its 19 year old glory.  Pictures of which still hang in my apartment to remind me that it may never be that good again – crap, I’m getting old.  Then the last and final reason and ladies I know you’re with me on this, to admire from time to time the man candy that happens to be in the same vicinity. Well for all intensive purposes I decided a week ago that it was time to take matters into my own hands when it came to asking out my “80’s hunk” who had in the recent months became my gym/weekend texting buddy.  It’s been about three … [Read more...]

Lesson Learned: Find Happiness Within Yourself

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Valentine’s Day Is Right Around The Corner

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February 14th is right around the corner! That means it is time for all you couples out there to start thinking of date night ideas!  Here are a few of my personal favorite Valentine’s Day Date Do’s: The Classic: Dinner and a romantic movie. The Vow staring Rachel   McAdams and Channing Tatum comes out on February 10th. What better romance movie movie then a man who does everything to try and get his wife to remember and love him?  The Edgy: If any of you are like one of the couples I know, they like to do daring and thrill seeking, adventurous activities as a couple. One way to do this on Valentine’s Day is to go Snow Boarding at Hunter Mountain for the weekend. Living Social has amazing weekend adventure deals.     The “Broke College Student”: Anyone in college, like myself, can relate to this. You go to school full time and work a part time job. Dinner and a movie can be expensive. If you and your hunny are short on cash, stay in! Cook a romantic dinner for two and cuddle up to your favorite movie.   *Remember*- Valentine’s Day is not just a holiday for couples to spend money on each other. It’s just … [Read more...]

To Let Go Or Not To Let Go?

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Dear Jenna- I don't know if you give relationship advice.. but I just thought I'd give this a shot.  I've been dating a guy for about a month now.  I've never met anyone I've had this much in common with, or clicked with so fast.  I really like getting to know him, and I want to wait to have sex.  The other night he dropped a bit of a (necessary) bomb on me.  For the past year he's been on medication (didn't tell me what for).  It's really messed with his sex drive, and as of late, he's been experiencing a bit of ED.  He found out this past week from his doctor, that this is quite normal from this medication, and just to take two months off from sex/self pleasure, and things should go back to normal.  Now, this is completely fine with me.  Two months is hardly an eternity, and I wanted to wait anyway.  Unfortunately, he told me that since he's used to dealing with things on his own, he'd rather not date me right now and just be friends.  I feel as though this isn't a "line" because we've actually made plans to hang out next week.  Every time I tried to get a straight answer out of him in terms of; are we taking a two moth break, then getting back … [Read more...]

A Life Inspiring Video

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A poem from Paulo Coelho translated. Video via YouTube … [Read more...]